Selena Gomez sure knows how to throw a party! Over the weekend, she was spotted in Cabo San Lucas, celebrating her rumored bachelorette party aboard a luxury yacht, laughing, dancing, and capturing every moment with her friends. Meanwhile, her fiancé, music producer Benny Blanco, was living his best life in Las Vegas, letting loose at a bachelor party with buddies, including rapper Lil Dicky. It seems like lovebirds are all about keeping separate celebrations thrilling—who needs a boring, traditional wedding pre-party anyway?

What’s even more fun is the blend of their personalities, with Benny enjoying the nightlife while Selena soaked in the sun. The pair seem to be making an extra effort to enjoy the ride before they tie the knot. And if you thought Selena’s wedding dessert would be something extravagant, think again—she’s planning to serve her grandma’s biscuits and gravy! Now that’s a wedding surprise nobody saw coming.

With both of them enjoying their time apart, it really makes you wonder about the dynamics of modern relationships. What would you want at your wedding dessert table? Share your own ideas and let’s see who can come up with the most outrageous dish. After all, who wouldn’t love a wedding complete with a side of comfort food?